“I felt the pain in mother’s voice after opening up to her” – Toyin Falaiye

“I felt the pain in mother’s voice after opening up to her” – Toyin Falaiye

May 4, 2023

It was during the long-term holiday break, just before I was going to start my SS3 and my mother called me into her room and handed me a bible. She asked, “What have you been doing with my husband?”. That came to me

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“I attempted suicide in my fourth year in the university” — Toyin Falaiye

“I attempted suicide in my fourth year in the university” — Toyin Falaiye

May 3, 2023

When I was in my fourth year (400 Level) of university, I attempted suicide again – But really, I’ve probably attempted suicide about 50 times and I must have had suicidal ideations about 500 times.  I say four times because I can literally

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“I hated my biological father for abandoning me” – Toyin Falaiye

“I hated my biological father for abandoning me” – Toyin Falaiye

May 3, 2023

I went to the university as a 21-year-old broken young woman. The real trauma began when I got to the university, where I struggled to find myself despite being the top student and head girl in secondary school. I realized I was lost,

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“No one else will have your back apart from Family” — Nissi Ogulu

“No one else will have your back apart from Family” — Nissi Ogulu

May 3, 2023

I asked Nissi about whether it was a good decision to be signed to her brother Burna Boy’s record label, Spaceship Records.           View this post on Instagram                      

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Nissi Ogulu Shares about Her Career, Family and Social Life!

Nissi Ogulu Shares about Her Career, Family and Social Life!

May 2, 2023

Today, it’s Nissi Ogulu! How to watch the FULL episode:  Subscribe on watch.withchude.com to watch the full video.  Subscribe on listen.withchude.com or Apple Premium to listen to the full podcast.

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“My mother caught my father molesting me, but she couldn’t say anything” – Toyin Falaiye

“My mother caught my father molesting me, but she couldn’t say anything” – Toyin Falaiye

May 2, 2023

At that time, I told my best friend about the abuse, and she advised that I should inform my mother about it. I couldn’t tell mummy because she didn’t have a child for this man – So he would send us both away. 

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“I attempted my first suicide at age Fifteen” — Toyin Falaiye

“I attempted my first suicide at age Fifteen” — Toyin Falaiye

May 1, 2023

I always say to people that sexual abuse was the price I had to pay for an education. The abuse went on for seven long years and it was killing me – I was dying slowly.  I attempted my first suicide at age

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“My adopted father molested me for seven years, night after night” – Toyin Falaiye

“My adopted father molested me for seven years, night after night” – Toyin Falaiye

May 1, 2023

I wasn’t this fluent in English and I always like to say this first in every conversation – I was a village girl. I was born in a small village in Akure and when I turned seven, my Father brought me to Lagos

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My Marriage was Low-key—Skales Reveals

My Marriage was Low-key—Skales Reveals

Apr 30, 2023

“I got married in 2021 and I remember I didn’t invite a lot of people. I just locked up because I’m not a fan of making noise about intimate family stuff. I rather do it small and not have so many random people.

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“I would like to change the way I handled things” – Skales

“I would like to change the way I handled things” – Skales

Apr 30, 2023

Retrospectively, the only thing I would like to change is the way I handled a lot of things. I should have been a little calmer and just know that God had my back. Judging from my story on how I came from Kaduna

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