“When desires are not controlled it leads to a lack of emotional safety.” —ARINZE IFEAKANDU
At least with those two characters for example the story began with his desires you know which is like what what does this man want. I knew I always wanted to write a story about this character who has a little child and
“Your readers are not idiots.” —ARINZE IFEAKANDU
The writer I admired once said in a workshop, “Don’t think your readers are idiots.” I think that is the biggest mistake you’re going to make. This means that the people who are reading your books are intelligent people. So, once you come
“Peter Obi remains the candidate for the Nigeria we need.” —Olusegun Obasanjo sits #WithChude
The interview is finally up on withchude.com! Olusegun Obasanjo, former president of Nigeria, has lived a long, full, rich life that many can only wish for. It was an absolute honour to sit and ask him many of the tough and kind questions
“While coming out of shame and guilt, I had a lot of rage burning in me.” —Arinze Ifeakandu
After I finished this book I was like I need to start therapy. I remember telling my writer friends that writing actually does help a lot in terms of dealing with things but therapy is better. I remember writing like Mother’s Love and
“I was shocked to see other queer Nigerian men enjoy freedom outside the country.” —Arinze Ifeakandu
I’ve been thinking we actually live in a don’t ask don’t tell kind of reality and around the time I was writing a lot of these stories I had a different reality at least a different social economic reality. For me, my main
“I attempted suicide in 2018.” — Warripikin
In 2017/2018 my husband and I had financial issues. We were in debt and everything. So, when I attempted suicide on June 6, 2018, I didn’t die. They took me to about three different hospitals but in the last hospital when I woke
“The culture of secrecy and shame in Nigerian families does not help the queer community.”—Arinze Ifeakandu
CHUDE: Why do you think that don’t ask don’t tell that is now defining for the queer community in Nigeria which is a flourishing Community at least on some level is there something in our cultural makeup that leads to that? ARINZE: I
“Before I knew the word Feminism, I had a genuine empathy for the female gender “—ARINZE IFEAKANDU
CHUDE: Why has “The Joys of Motherhood” stood out so powerfully for you as a writer? ARINZE: One of the things that happened to me when I went to get my masters was like I was living in this place with a lot
Olusegun Obasanjo has Something to Say About Alpha-Beta!
Baba has something to say about a company called Alpha Beta. 2 days to go! How to watch the FULL episode: Subscribe on watch.withchude.com to watch the full video. Subscribe on listen.withchude.com or Apple Premium to listen to the full podcast.
“Stories when told honestly will reach the people it needs to reach.” —Arinze Ifeakandu
I didn’t have the anxiety of not writing a relatable story to other people. I think for the longest time even before I began to actually write stories and when I was still telling them, I felt like people have always related to