“My parents died because of battles from the guilt of the past, but I have forgiven them.” — Kaffy
The award winning Nigerian dancer Kaffy sat with me on today’s episode of #WithChude. She bares all the pain, the guilt and wishes her parents were still alive. Although her parents made the wrong choices, Kaffy says She wanted to show them the love that was available and that she had forgiven them.
In her words:
“(My parents) were battling so much towards the end of their life for me to put that burden on them, I don’t think I needed to do that. I felt that I didn’t want to bring back old wounds, there are some things that you know that the person already knows that I’ve messed up. But are we going to let them die with that or let them feel the love that is available.
You must have messed up but you’re still daddy, You know. I wish they were still here, I know that if they took better decisions, they won’t be dead because a lot of circumstances around them that I felt was a burden and I could feel they were suffering from inside and you know the body responds to our mind. The body listens to the mind intercellularly, so if we keep nurturing certain thoughts it will make you sick inside and there’s a level that the Doctors can’t help. If you don’t fight for life yourself by just trying to uncover and release yourself from your past mistakes. And I felt that was the battle they were having, I can’t add to that”.
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