Author: Withchude

I don’t know that my mum is okay yet. We’ve always been strong, my mum has always been strong person. And I think I’m kinda like my mum. But they don’t talk to people, I’ve told my mum, lets go here. She’d be

Yes! it’s true I swept, cooked, dusted cupboards. I did a lot of menial jobs to survive in England. How to watch the FULL episode:  Subscribe on watch.withchude.com to watch the full video.  Subscribe on listen.withchude.com or Apple Premium to listen to the

I put my children in school in England and came back to Nigeria still monitoring my children. After one month I went to check on them. They weren’t the children I left a month ago. The mothering touch was not there, and I

I cried, I think after Tosin passed and I wasn’t dealing with that properly and I had to go into like counseling a few months last year. Then I did cry in one of those sessions…like I had to…the grief, the burnouts, anger,

Children are not asked to be born. The moment you decide that you want to have them then you must be ready to take full responsibility for them. They are beautiful creatures, so you don’t bring them to this world to suffer and

From set to set money was flowing but I left that for seven pounds to fifty pounds per hour in England. Before I could make a thousand pound I have to sweat. Now I’m proud because there’s nothing I can’t do and I

“I wouldn’t have left my children for my career. They were young and I am a mother hen. I couldn’t be selfish enough to choose my career over my children. While I was abroad, I left my career and I was a full

I got married to an HR man, so when they want to give employment, I know what it’s like. I know the university, I know how they select people from abroad in premier universities, up to state before going to private. And I

When I told my mum I was having a baby after project fame, my mum wailed. She was like “Who is the boy? – He has stolen my jewel”. I’ve never seen my mum that sad before. She had always imagined that I